graceful
adj
1 showing a pleasing beauty of form, movement or manner (形式、 动作或举止)优雅的, 优美的
a graceful dancer 绰约多姿的跳舞者
a graceful leap 优美的跳跃
the graceful curves of the new bridge 新桥的美丽曲线.
2 pleasing in both style and attitude; polite and considerate 得体的; 礼貌而周到的
His refusal was worded in such a graceful way that we could not be offended. 他婉言谢绝, 无损於我们颜面.
Second, if your friends have problems, do not give advice. Ask questions instead, such as What do yo want? How do you feel about it? What are you afraid might happen? They will be able to find answers to any problems themselves, with your support. They